Let's see if I can help........... The mains supply is alternating current (it "alternates" at a very regular nominal 50 times a second), so if you want to shove power into the grid it's got to be "in phase" (alternating in step with) the grid supply - there has to be a mechanism of some sort to ensure that it gets and stays "in step"........
so essentially there's a couple of ways - an incredibly complex gadget that keep the engine/genny running absolutely bang on speed (expensive and complex), OR an "inverter", another expensive bit of kit that can take in "mucky" electricity, and emit clean perfect pure sinewave electricity that you can connect to the grid (expensive, a couple of grand for 4kw or thereabouts). The other part of the"G59 or 83" standards is that there has to be an automatic "dead man's handle", so that if the grid goes down, your supply has to cut instantly (or some poor sod up a pylon could get fried by your chipfat genny - rather appropriately!)

All of these gubbins are necessary, complex, and bally expensive (as Ken said, there's no easy or cheap "amateur" route). Then there's the MCS thing, which boils down to the fact that unless your installation is new equipment, fitted by an MCS accredited company, you can't register for the higher payments........
SO, it is probably possible, but economically really isn't a "goer" - you'd be better off using the power on farm directly to supplant use of expensive imported electricity - and perhaps using the cooling water to heat the house, or be used round the farm
Hope that helps - clear as mud now!
