I don't know the exact details of the pipework yet - but I suspect that it would be easy enough to join them all together underground (the roof is a wide V shape).
I was going to bury them just a foot underground - hence the breather.
Ekkin gert means large oil tank, new, from Deso (a local rotational moulding company) - these are rejects for visual reasons.
Two pumps Vs 1 pump and a balance pipe? Not sure which is more 'reliable' - why should a thick galv steel pipe leak in the forseeable future?
Filter - yes - I am not overly happy with the suggestion - thanks for the link -
http://www.rainwaterharvesting.co.uk/proddetail.php?prod=RWH-CF1 is what I was inventing in my mind! seems a bit steep for a T piece with a bit of mesh...