How far did you go in making your house airtight before you fitted it? Have you ever tried running with it turned off for a few days in winter to see what difference it makes to the feel of the house? I'm somewhat concerned as to how airtight I need to make the house before I'd notice any difference.
The major point is that, to keep the condensation under control, you need forced extraction from wet areas like kitchen and bathroom. This means expelling hot air from the house, wasting that heat.
An MVHR system will retain most of that heat and put it back into the house, reducing heat wastage. And it means a supply of fresh warmed air into the rooms.
My system is linked into other systems so is not easy to turn off. For example the pumped shower only works when the ventilation is running full power. Similarly the kitchen cooker hood. And we do most of our clothes drying in the airing cupboard which is, again, linked into the ventilation system.
Loir