Well relay arrived, electrican has wired it in and it seems to be working as planned

As we are only using DHW at the moment it takes a few days to see if the oil boiler automatically starts okay. Have been experimenting with temp setting on stats and I actually have both at 60 degrees. Setting the bottom at 60 seems to get bottom tank temp gauge to 80 degrees.
What I have noticed because flow from oil boiler is just above the laddomat and not direct into the tank, heat also travels into the boiler. Which is a bit of a waste however it will give frost protection to the log boiler in the winter.
Attached a picture showing the system with the stats fitted.
Alan,
Thanks for diagram and relay supplier.