Do you think the rubitherm has any significant advantage over bog standard oil/wax.
No, not particularly if you can get standard oil/wax with such a tightly controlled melting point.
I wonder how easy it would be to separate at home. E.g., cool to 7°C, filter and keep the liquid then cool that to 3°C, filter again and discard the liquid, keeping the solids. If you only want a few kilos for an off-grid fridge it would seem better to just order stuff that somebody else has already done this to and concentrate your effort on something more useful.