Thanks very much for all that, Lightfoot – much appreciated – lots of good, practical information, - it just about doubles my knowledge on this subject!
I take your point about the danger of uncontrolled hot water, so once I have a firm idea of how the system should be set up I’ll be going to a plumber. The only problem is that most of the ones I’ve spoken to round here are not keen on getting involved with anything ‘alternative.’ I live in hope of finding one….
My idea was to put the towel rail in the pumped CH circuit because it’s about as far away from the stove as it can be. So I’d then planned to have a separate 1kW unvalved rad closer to the stove, both flow and return connections would probably have to be higher than the accumulator tank. I wasn’t very happy with this as it puts heat into a part of the building where it’s not really needed, but couldn’t work out another way of doing it. (See attached diagram, from Charnwood.) Any ideas?
Also, the whole idea of ‘dumping’ heat seems unsatisfactory because it seems so wasteful, but I guess it’s an unavoidable part of the system. I was hoping that having a radiator capacity in the pumped circuit of 4.7kW would mean that I wouldn’t be dumping too often.
I start to go dizzy when I try to understand control systems, so your advice to keep it simple is exactly right for me! If I’ve understood correctly, the system as suggested by Charnwood would give priority to the accumulator tank until the temp. is high enough and would then automatically start the CH system. In the meantime the stove would be giving 2.5kW to the room. Would a cylinder stat, as you suggest, be better?
Re. the solar circuit – I read on one of the other threads a suggestion to have the panel mounted on the ground below the accumulator tank, which would save on controls and electricity . This appealed to me as it’s simpler, though, as Cornishben pointed out to me, this might be more liable to frost damage – more antifreeze?
Re. output of boiler: our experience with a 4 – 6kW Hunter stove (no boiler) is that it doesn’t seem to produce as much heat as claimed so I ‘geuestimated’ that the optimal 7.0 kW claimed for dhw and ch would be about right for a 4.4kW heat demand plus hot water. May be wildly wrong…. As you say, the mismatch between heat from the solar panels and the heat from the boiler could be solved by a bigger accumulator tank and more tubes (and more money….)
The idea for the separate shower came from ignorance, probably…

I think our pressure problem will be that we have too much – 8.5bar. I just thought that the shower pressure would be less affected if the washbasin, sink and dishwasher were all running at once
I’ll check out Cornish Ben’s thread again to look at piping.
Once again, many thanks!
Salamagundy