Thanks Biff and Wookey,
I get what you are saying Wookey.
I want things that are not chained to their proprietary systems. I will be redoing a lot of electrics at the same time and I do have quite a bit of space but I also want something energy efficient. No point creating a really efficient house and then burning electric on a bank of computers!
Some of the z-wave stuff looks cool and have great interfaces such as this
http://www.fibaro.com/eng/index.php?ID=hc2. I am concerned that this solution would be restrictive though and maybe not as reliable as wired solutions. I want to use proper CCTV cameras with PTZ and not cheap ip cameras so I need something that will interface with a seperate DVR to display images to the phone etc.
I know I am asking for a lot but it seems that all the technology is there it just needs linked together and then displayed to a snazzy interface.