What is this 6 K.W. device. ?
6 K.W. at what voltage. ?
What grid connect inverter are you using. ?
If you use the Aurora grid connect inverter and dump load it will supply up to 7.2 K.W. into what ever type of heater you connect to it.
The dump load can be modified to operate at a reduced voltage.
If you switch off the inverter A.C. supply all power will be diverted to your heater.
( Remove all thermostats in the heater load. The load is there to protect the inverter. )
More high tech but still keep it simple approach.
Presuming your 6 K.W. device is three phase. ? Use a three phase bridge rectifier to give you a D.C. voltage for the control system.
http://uk.farnell.com/vishay-formerly-international-rectifier/26mt100pbf/bridge-rectifier-25a-3ph/dp/9098550connect as many voltage sensing relays as you require.
http://uk.farnell.com/jsp/search/browse.jsp;jsessionid=14YDEUT2UW3EYCQLCIQZKBQ?N=0&Ntk=gensearch_001&Ntt=sm+125+230&Ntx=&suggestions=false&searchTerm=sm+125+230&_requestid=265680RELAY, VOLTAGE SENSE, 50-500V D.C.
Use the relay out put to switch either one relay for each phase if you are switching A.C.
Relay
http://uk.farnell.com/releco/c3-a30x230a/relay-11-pin-3pco-230vac/dp/1086849Base
http://uk.farnell.com/releco/s3-s-s3-bc-s3-c/socket-din-11-pin-relay/dp/1086859?in_merch=true&( Meaning one voltage sense relay will operate three larger relays, one connected to each phase of your generator. Use the loads of the same wattage and connect in star. ( more advice could be offered if required. ))
Or use three phase solid state relays.
http://uk.rs-online.com/web/search/searchBrowseAction.html?method=getProduct&R=2181921Either connect a three phase star or delta connected load direct to this.
Or use a three phase bridge rectifier.
http://uk.rs-online.com/web/search/searchBrowseAction.html?method=getProduct&R=2278839And use one heater load connected to this.
( thermo stats can be used to switch the three phase solid state relays or the mechanical relays. )
Lots of voltage sensing relays can be used if required.
Not so keep it simple. Use PIC micro and voltage sense driving pulse width modulated I.G.B.T. It works very well but bit of rocket science required.
Can explain in more detail if required.
Edit. Assuming that your device is connected using a G59 / 83 relay current in any cable will be export. Use current transformer and voltage relay or relays to switch various loads in steps.
With PIC and current transformers quite doo able.
With current transformer on export connection feeding a voltage relay / loads is doo able.
Regards
Alan