hi guys - right well having done this already - my 10 pence worth -

- first things first -water buts are fine -BUT depending on how many people you have in the house and how much they use the loo ( obviously ) - you will find that at say 10 Lt per flush - even a large butt will drain fairly quick - ( which is why my next move with my system is an IBC of at least 1000 Lt's - and i would say that for "reliable" all year round capacity for ONE PERSON this is minimum
float switches - header tanks etc - yep again fine - IF you want to over complicate things - i have a simple switch ( with one of those sexy red "missile fire " covers ) - that stops and starts the pump ( 12 volt - solar powered via battery bank ) - end of - ya want water ?? - then stand there and fill the cistern
as to back flow / contamination - nooo chance as the mains supply to the loo is physically VALVED OFF + i always use non return valves in line -( what you want MAINS on for when on rain ?? ) - the rain water inlet is below the mains float valve which then ALSO acts as a seal as it is shut by the rain water acting on the float valve ( also a good way of using less water to flush ) - and it auto flushes the line if you have to change over ( think about it )
( water regs - wot they then ??

- like ALL rules they are for " the adherence of fools and the guidance of wise men " and what the
rob dogs at our local water board don't know - don't hurt them ) ***
and something else i have learned this winter - insulation is king for outside storage tanks if above ground !! - - so a rehash is required this summer to stop any problems next year - but that's all part of the learning curve with this stuff

and finally - you MAY want to do some guttering diversion - any roof area that's NOT contributing - is wasted collection - all my roofs ( shed -garage etc ) have been diverted - now if i could figure some way of getting the guttering at the front of the house to discharge at the back

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any ways - good luck with your projects - the scope for invention and bodging is enormous - and even my small system saves me a fortune in metered water - well why pay to flush it away ??
*** - best to keep quiet about what you do with this ( don't advertise) as if the penny pushers at the water mafia HQ hear of too many people doing this sort of thing ( usually via nosy and interfering neighbors ) - then they will be demanding to inspect installation and there will be rules regs and even MORE charges coming out of our ears - well THEY OWN all the water that falls out sky ( apparently in some states of the US you are not allowed to rainwater harvest ) - WHO THE HELL gave them THAT right then ??

makes me laugh - when there ain't enough of it they own it all - and when there's too much ( eg flooding ) - oh then its not their responsibility but an act of god - may be WE should start charging THEM if we get flooded for looking after THEIR water ??

- don't get me started ................